Helping others believe in themselves helps us notice the many qualities they have which can help them attain their goals as well as invite them to work together with us to help us attain ours. Theodore Roosevelt said, "Believe you can, and you are halfway there." Very often that belief comes from a supportive circle of family and friends. We are wi...
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Finding her purpose was more than just a cliché for my client T. When we began working together she was determined to live a happier, healthier and more meaningful life. Why Do You Need a Sense of Purpose? Feeling like what you do is worthwhile is directly connected to longevity and well-being. With all of the benefits, it's clear that it's i...
"Listening to your body is a link in the chain of change and healing." These are wise words offered to me in my WiSh (Wisdom Share) Series with Bev Liebson about the power of taking the time to notice what we feel in our bodies. So much of the time the answers to our health challenges are within, but we don't always know how to read the signs and r...
Being kind is an interpersonal skill that strengthens your relationships and sense of satisfaction with life. "Bev being kind, friendly, generous, and considerate in our sessions, demonstrated the powerful impact of courage and strength." This is how S. experienced our work together. Science has shown that devoting resources to others, rather...
"When you come from a very clear place , you can use your skills from all your life experiences to best deal with any challenge at hand. " This is how Beverly Chimes opened her wisdom share with me almost 2 years ago.It was wise then and it still holds true for today. Beverly believes that understanding yourself will guide you no matter where you a...
Living intentionally requires clarity. When you are clear about what makes you happy, healthy, loving and fabulous, you become happy, healthy, loving and fabulous. When S. worked with me she expressed that becoming clear on what really mattered to her and getting rid of what really didn't, made her life a lot easier. Becoming clearer requires...
When speaking to Gila Green about her author journey I was inspired by her deep seated belief in her "inner compass" that has "directed" and guided her to produce several poignantly written and published books. Her journey was navigated by knowing clearly what her destination was. She knew what she wanted and began taking the necessary steps to get...
Faced with a difficult, stressful situation, relationship-related, your default feeling may be of defeat. Sometimes we give up the minute we see a hurdle in our path. The message is emphatically you can't ever be good enough. How can you confront and find ways of solving problems instead of always seeing them as insurmountable obstructions to any f...
Aviva Belfer is an enhancer of possibilities. She always asks, what more can we do? She invites people to step out of their story and to see who they are. "When we buy into our stories, we close off seeing what additional possibilities are available to us." she says. "When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. 'My h...
Deep and meaningful relationships play a vital role in overall well-being. Research has proven that people with supportive and rewarding relationships have better overall mental health. An informative perspective on thriving through relationships, emphasizes two types of support that relationships can provide. What is 'thriving'? Relationships help...
Changing your perspective on a situation, will change your life! This is what happened to my client O. when through sharing his challenges in coaching sessions, he was able to find clarity and calm through a new way of viewing his circumstances. You see, it's never the situation that's at fault. It's the way you choose to view it. In life, nothing ...
Our breath is our closest and most intimate friend. It's been with us from the moment we were born. It has been with us through happy times, through challenging times and everyday experiences. It's always there for us and with us. Noticing our in and out breath is one of our easiest, most convenient and natural tools to combat stress and anxiety, r...
"We've all felt pain from people hurting us and we often hold onto this emotional energy." Joanne Victoria spoke this poignant sentence when she shared with me about early attachment trauma that impacts our lives today. According to Thomas Hubl, trauma is an overwhelming experience or situation that has an effect in our bodies, our emotional world ...
Like many things in life, the decision to bring about change rarely happens overnight. It takes something like a Eureka moment, a coach or an accident for us to really look at ourselves and realize that something needs to change. Things gradually build up in us and we start to suffer the results. It is usually the results that we notice first...
I asked Marquez Mosher what he means when he suggests we challenge our perspective to create new opportunities. His reply was "check if what you believe is still accurate and applicable". What then? I asked, "Well if they are still relevant then take the next step to achieving the dream you wish to create for yourself, if not be open to new possibi...
When B told me, in a recent workshop I led, that she felt heard and understood, I asked her to share more of what she'd experienced.We all have the need to be heard and understood. When we feel heard and understood we feel valued and loved. So, why do we sometimes not feel heard or understoodThere are 2 aspects to being heard and understood.The fir...
"So often we live the life that other people want for us" This is how Stephanie McPhail opens her WiSh ( Wisdom Share) with me. So many times we live the life that family expect of us, society says we should, men are supposed to…., women must… We only have one opportunity to live this life, so let's live the best one that we can because, we h...
When N. began working with me she set an intention to find peace and clarity. You have the power to create a reality that excites you on every level. With intention, possibilities are endless and you can live a life that matters to you. Your intentions manifest with the help of your thoughts, words, and actions. Your intention is what you want in t...
This is Kimberly Kasparian's mantra from her generous heart to ours. "Success is simple ." How so? Let's begin with Step no.1: Set and Intention Intention is getting clear on what you want. It sounds really easy. However when we feel stressed, we start adding conditions. I want it but not at the expense of…It's not intention when we want to b...
Being enthusiastic in the presence of others is about being supportive and motivating. Motivation and positive energy are contagious. Being enthusiastic as a coach when in relation with your clients creates the momentum to move your clients into action. Enthusiasm needs to be authentic and come from a strong desire to see your clients at their best...